You Get What You Pay For


Yes! GOOD!

You really do sometimes… GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR!

Yesterday I had the privilege of getting my hair cut. It is very stressful for my husband to hear how much it costs him when I do this. For a man with NO hair it must be pretty hard to swallow (he he – I just like to tease you a little Stephen).  I guess me getting my hair cut and colored makes up for him not doing it at all. While we are talking about Stephen…. I usually ask him the night before I get a cut for input. Almost every time he says, "I like long hair – it shows discipline", and I usually come home with my hair cut short – until yesterday. I decided to try it (grow my hair out). With the help of the following two items I just might be able to do it and like it…

#1 – When I began getting my hair cut at this particular spot I noticed the flat iron used on my hair at the end of the style did a fabulous job, my stylist told me she loved the CHI brand flat iron. You know what I did? I went home dreaming and scheming of a way to get one in my possession. Lucky for me Mother’s Day was coming up (2008) and I had a perfect request…after much convincing and finding a good deal, Stephen found me a new one on EBay. It came and I have never been the same. It is smooth – literally and figuritively.Before the CHI I used other various flat irons that only made my hair frizzier or  were only a temporary fix for keeping my crazy hair straight and in control. I love my CHI – ask anyone in my family. Last year when I went to France and Portugal it didn’t work in the outlets … I was beside myself – SERIOUSLY! I was panicked more than I thought I would be and so happy to come home to my outlets. (I am sounding really vain here, but really what’s a girl to do with frizzy hair and lots of pictures in front of old castles, the Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, the Louvre?) At the beginning of this year I had another panic moment when I plugged in my CHI and it didn’t turn on! STRESS, especially since it was Sunday. Of course Stephen, the man who can fix anything, came to my rescue. He cut off a cord from some blow dryer and spliced it together with my original cord. LOVE THAT MAN! Now I can fix my hair in the kitchen while it’s plugged in my bathroom (not really – but the cord is exceptionally long).

#2 – Kendra hot spray "protect and finish". It is amazing – I really love it. I just spent the past 3 weeks using an imposter "protect and finish" that I bought from Sally Beauty Supply. It really didn’t do a good job and it was only a couple of dollars less. I realized that it was NOT worth the sacrifice of saving a couple of bucks.I really shouldn’t go without Kendra – unless I want frizzy hair.

Well with these two product I am ready to start my adventure of growing 4 to 5 more inches of hair. Long hair here we come! I hope I can be patient and "disciplined" enough…wish me luck.

Comments:

michelle said…

Good luck with that-I have never made it. Those products sound great.
Thursday, October 22, 2009 4:46:06 PM

Stephen said…

You are a funny girl.
Thursday, October 22, 2009 10:39:57 PM

Two Weeks til Trick or Treat Day

2 WEEK COUNT DOWN

Just a reminder that we have 2 weeks left until trick or treat day, and I’m talking about the exercise campaign – NOT THE CANDY silly!

It is sure to be a fun and memorable Halloween Day FOR SURE. I’m even toying with the idea of wearing some sort of costumey thing too just because I can. To think that I will be able to justify one extra fun size almond joy that evening makes me actually eager to run the 13.1 mile goal I set for myself. (so it’s not ALL about the health right?) Oh, and let us not forget the registration fee/prize – new boots for me (Yes I bought them and they are waiting in my closet)!

The half-marathon run will begin at 10:30 am – let me know if you want to join us for our 2+ hour conversation (I am hoping to find some new random conversation topics from the John Tesh Radio Show) and I’ll fill you in on the route details. There will also be fitness activities planned after lunch, which my children will be participating in- probably to begin at 1:30. These will include a 13.1 mile bike ride pass the Rexburg Temple, and  5K and 10K walks or runs – depending on who is interested in what.

We think we might order shirts for those participating in the activities in our town, but need a head count – so leave a comment below and give us a number if you are interested in a shirt. WE WILL ORDER THEM THIS COMING MONDAY so please act quickly. The graphic we hope to use is what you see above.  Come to think of it, while you’re leaving your comment – it would be good to get a number going on how many to plan on for each activity, so if you could leave a number for that too it would be good. Thanks!

If you won’t be joining us here in our town, but WILL BE "trick or treating" for your health in your neck of the woods – let us know how it goes and HAVE LOTS OF FUN! I really want to see your pictures via email, please?

JODI

Opportunity Cost


This is one of my favorite pictures! The sun is setting on this chapter of my life and I am glad this picture was taken because of Jana’s suggestion!

The time has come to share a wonderful post written by one of the people I don’t really know, but feel like I know because I read her blog posts often. I discovered this blogger (CJane) when I saw her on the Today Show talking about her sister, Stephanie (nieniedialouges), whom survived a horrific plane crash last year. Stephanie is now left with skin grafts and an inspiring outlook on life – maybe you saw her on Oprah last week? Her blog is quite amazing to read as well. The post cjane wrote yesterday put my feelings into words perfectly, it is entitled "A Heavy Meal"!Click here to check it out. She has an amazing writing style that I find extremely enjoyable! These sisters are making a difference in many lives as they share their day to day struggles by using their testimonies of the gospel (which they attribute to making it through another day). They have used their "fame" to do good and be missionaries in their own right.

When cjane talks about her fight from yesterday’s post- I recognized it. It manifested itself to me when I actually realized that I was fighting for the wrong team this past Monday.

Here is a condensed version of this particular fight: I have been trying to find more time to read – because you know how a mother’s personal time is sucked up by all of the necessaries that go to running a household! My justification came when I thought about how this book would be life inspiring and is such a good classic book, "To Kill a Mockingbird". How can I  not make time for such good things? I started my fight, thinking that I deserved some time to read. I eventually started getting grouchy about it and became resentful of the necessaries (dishes, another meal, homework, sweeping the floor). Then a beautiful thing happened while folding laundry Monday and re-listening to conference talks. I heard Elder Bednar say, "In my office is a beautiful painting of a wheat field. The painting is a vast collection of individual brushstrokes—none of which in isolation is very interesting or impressive. In fact, if you stand close to the canvas, all you can see is a mass of seemingly unrelated and unattractive streaks of yellow and gold and brown paint. However, as you gradually move away from the canvas, all of the individual brushstrokes combine together and produce a magnificent landscape of a wheat field. Many ordinary, individual brushstrokes work together to create a captivating and beautiful painting. Each family prayer, each episode of family scripture study, and each family home evening is a brushstroke on the canvas of our souls. No one event may appear to be very impressive or memorable. But just as the yellow and gold and brown strokes of paint complement each other and produce an impressive masterpiece, so our consistency in doing seemingly small things can lead to significant spiritual results. “Wherefore, be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great” (D&C 64:33). Consistency is a key principle as we lay the foundation of a great work in our individual lives and as we become more diligent and concerned in our own homes."

After hearing that for the second time, I realized (with some apparent divine intervention), "It is not time for reading – it is time for holding, playing, teaching, talking, and loving." This is the battle I’m in now…the reading can come later.  Arming myself with the right weapons for battle is the key. Giving up something good for something better is a smart lesson in economics and mothering.

Comments:

Trevin and Stephanie said…

Thank, I really needed to hear this. We can have a party and watch “To Kill a Mocking Bird” I bought it thinking my kids would love it and it turned out to be too deep for their simple minds.

I hope I can keep this thought in mind for the next 10 years. Thanks. We are so blessed with what we have.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009 10:45:50 PM

Bruce and Sharon said…

Good thoughts!! Time goes so quickly and soon you see that the kids are all grown up and you can’t really remember the bad times just the good time you spent being there with them. But some days are really a fight. Keep hanging in there.
Thursday, October 15, 2009 6:18:21 AM

michelle said…

Thanks for the reminder Jodi. I think we all get in that struggle and its good to look at what is really important NOW.
Friday, October 16, 2009 8:45:42 AM

New Hymn for the Latter-Day Saint Woman

My mom emailed this to me today and I got a chuckle from it…maybe you will too?

"As Latter-day Saint women, we are practically obsessed with anxiously engaging ourselves in good causes. Maybe it’s subliminal.

Glancing through the hymnal last Sunday I noted that as sisters in Zion, we who are called to serve are all enlisted to go marching, marching forward because the world has need of willing men to all press on scattering sunshine. We wonder if we have done any good in the world today because we have been given much and want to do what is right, keep the commandments, press forward with the Saints, choose the right, and put our shoulders to the wheel going where He wants us to go. However, as the morning breaks high on the mountain top, truth reflects upon our senses, and while we still believe that sweet is the work, we also realize that we have work enough to do ere the sun goes down. And thus we ask Thee ere we part, where can we turn for peace?"

 

Welcome Autumn

Welcome to my most favorite season. In honor of this special first day of autumn we ate pumpkin chocolate chip cookies for an after school snack and toasted it in this morning with a cup of hot chocolate. Just puts a smile on your face doesn’t it? Here is the easy breezy recipe used for the cookies:

Easy Pumpkin Cookies From: Jana Brewer
1 box carrot cake or spice cake mix
1 16 oz. can pumpkin pie filling
1 Tbsp. oil
chocolate chips
 
Mix all ingredients together. bake at 350 for 10-12 min.

Notes: Very easy, but muy delicious!

 
Oven Temp: 350°   Cooking Time: 10 Min   Servings: 12

Comments:

Magan said…

My favorite cookie, I have a really good family recipe from my grandma I will have to share with you. This looks very easy though I will have to try it
Wednesday, September 23, 2009 5:25:38 PM

Megan said…

Yum! My kids will like it when I surprise them with this! Thanks.
Friday, September 25, 2009 11:40:04 PM

Quotes that make me go, Hmmm.

I came across some of the quotes I’ve randomly written down and decided to place them here so that I can toss the papers cluttering up my night stand:

CURRENT FAVORITE QUOTE: "Good decisions don’t make life easy, they make it easier." From the movie Forever Strong

This set of quotes come from the book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. As I re-read them I realized that I really need to apply the words to my life more.

  • "People justify & don’t take responsibility for criticism."
  • "Judge not that ye be not judged!" (isn’t that a scripture?)
  • "Change yourself (NOT OTHERS) – it is more profitable than trying to improve others & a lot less dangerous."
  • Benjamin Franklin said, "I will speak ill of no man, … and speak all the good I know of everybody."
  • "Father Forgets" by W. Linvingston Larned. "What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, or reprimanding – this was my reward for you being a boy…it was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years." (This story is touching and heartbreaking and stares us all in the face! Take a second to click on the link and read the whole thing)
  • UNDERSTAND don’t condemn
  • Charles Schwab said, "I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people, the greater asset I possess. And the way to develop the best that is in a person is by appreciation & encouragement."
  • Martin Luther King said, "I judge people by their own principles – not mine."
  • La Raochefoucauld "If you want enemies, excel your friends; but if you want friends, let your friends excel you."
  • Listen! Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
  • Have an increased tendency to think always in terms of the others person’s point of view…from that person’s angle.

Commercial Spot

Tonight Stephen and I attended a concert at BYU-I featuring the Nashville Tribute Band perfoming the albums, "Trek" and "Joseph" . These are 2 staple church CDs at our house and are beloved by each member of our family. If you haven’t heard the songs to these tributes please come and borrow ours or better for you in the long run, buy them! There was a lot to live up to tonight for us and we were not disappointed.

Getting to know the face behind the music was absolutely my favorite part…Jason Deere is the founder/writer and is seriously one neat dude. He has a soft heart and is a musical master. On the way home I kept wondering (even out loud) who he reminded me of…I finally came up with it – my little brother Scott. If you didn’t know it, I really like my brother – so that explains why I instantly liked Jason Deere. He is like a giant professional missionary. In fact, I was delighted to hear him say that he is making a new Nashville Tribute about missionaries! It will be out at the first of the year…you know I’ll be getting that.

Just to those of you who don’t know me well enough to remember that country music isn’t my first choice of music style, this stuff mixed with gospel content just hits the spot for me.

Also something to look for is the newly formed band,"Due West". They have a hit on the country charts, "I Get That All the Time." The band is produced by Jason Deere, and three members of the Nashville Tribute Band make it up. They formed this secular band because they wanted to have a band sing in Nashville with standards to look to (they won’t be singing about tears in their beers or cheatin’ hearts). They hope to someday draw a crowd that will be interested in hearing their testimonies through the Joseph and Trek music. I get it…wish I could explain it better.

Here are two of our favorite songs from these tributes for you to sample:

1. "How much can one heart take" – song about Emma Smith (I love Mindy Gledhill)

2."Crack of a whip" – My children’s personal favorite!

Things that make me happy today…


Doesn’t this make you happy too?


  1. Parting HUGS from my family as they left for work/school
  2. Morning STARS in the brisk cool September air
  3. Red POLKA DOT Pillows
  4. Rocking JT’s boy legs
  5. My Wall QUOTES
  6. Black Eyed Susans
  7. A good book to read
  8. Talking to Olivia
  9. The 26.2 sticker on the back of my friend’s van
  10. Bathroom Hair organizer

*HERE IS AN UPDATE ON the TRICK or TREAT campaign…*

Monday I found out that my nephew will be getting baptized at 9 am on Halloween morning – I would be sad to miss it!  So my possee and I will be postponing  our run until early afternoon – it will be warmer then too, right?!  It has been fun to hear from various people who are joining the campaign…we have some walkers, runners, daily exercisers, who have committed themselves to a trick and treat! I have been motivated because of you (from CA to AZ and right next door)- so fun! Now I just need to go pick me up some new running shoes…


One of my favorites

Thanks Jana for the great idea, what did we do before this?

only 1/4 into this one, but it is delightful

Ooooh, do they have to grow up?

Cheerful, no?

My Trick or Treat Campaign

I am so excited about my latest idea – I really hope it makes many people excited,  because wouldn’t that be just grand to have lots of people excited? Excited, eager, energetic, I wish I could think of another "e" word – that was fun.

Anyway, here is my great idea that is going to make you so excited (and me too remember?)

I am here to launch the first ever,

"Trick or Treat" Half Marathon.

O.k., did I loose you when I said half marathon? Keep reading because this is part of the trick.

DATE: Saturday, October 31st

TIME: 8 a.m.

LOCATION: To be determined

 Here’s my story: I have been feeling rather stagnant about my exercise regiment…meaning I am getting sloppy and basically want to be lazy. I decided I need something to shoot for – I need a goal. That is when I decided I should train for a 1/2 marathon. It isn’t too time consuming and it would keep me motivated without being overwhelmed. (To most non-runners this would seem overwhelming I realize. This is the beauty of my idea. You can pick your own goal, maybe you’re a biker, or swimmer, or walker, or even just getting started?) The main idea is to do something more than you are doing now and set a deadline to be better.

Anyway, when I thought about doing this I realized I didn’t want to pay for another registration and also incur travel expenses. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS REALLY FUN! I rationalized that rather than pay a registration fee and/or travel expenses – I’ll pay myself with a special prize. I don’t even know what it is yet, but i"ll let you know.  (I’m leaning toward a new pair of leather boots, a fabric jellyroll, or a zip-up hoodie) It becomes a win/win situation. I get in shape, feel good about myself, and also get a little something something! Maybe that should be called a win/win/win situation.

When I told Stephen about my idea he said we should make a shirt (the man will do anything for a shirt). He said we could get them for $5 each? So there might be a shirt in the deal for you too for a small price.

Notice the location is to be determined – I’m hoping that lots of you will be excited – people that don’t even live near me. So you will have to pick a place to accomplish your goal. If you want to come to my neck of the woods, I would love to lace up my running shoes next to you – I’ll keep you updated on the course selection.

I really want some friends/family to get tricked into treating themselves with me! Don’t delay. Leave a comment to commit yourself and add what your fitness goal will be. If you are like me, you need a friend so call one and let’s get moving.

The Fruits of our Labors – a weekly guide

I am sitting here plum tired! I started to wonder how I could be so tired and then I began to add up what we have accomplished in the past week.

Because it is "that time of year" again…(you know the part of the year where all of the sudden the fruit and veggies are ready to be packed up and preserved for their long winter’s nap?)I found myself being pulled against my will to prepare certain fruits – peaches, apples, and tomatoes to be exact – for the coming months ahead.

When I use the words "against my will" I am reminded of my Tuesday lecture prepared just for Mason after he said, "I don’t want to practice the piano. I just want to take piano lessons and know how to play." It became apparent  that I needed to remind him how it just doesn’t work that way. Every day progress is being made helping him become a better musician, the small things add up to something big! We all know that, right?!

Now back to my canning diary:

Monday Stephen had the family up at the crack of dawn ready to go pick tomatoes out in Salem.  We (along with our friends the Puzey’s who wanted to learn how to bottle tomato juice) went out and picked 5 bushel of tomatoes. We then came home and set up tomato juice production. We had quite the set up as  you can tell from the photos. We had a successful day ending up with 114 quarts. We did have 3 casualties which spooked us all and made us get jittery…kind of funny now that I think of it.

Tuesday I picked up my peaches from my mother-in-law Sharon. As we talked we both realized that we were out of canning jars. Just as I was about to pull out of the driveway Aunt Dot pulled in. Low and behold in the back of her trunk were boxes of quart jars. I offered to help carry some and as I was unpacking boxes, Sharon said, "you should take these wide mouth jars – they would be perfect for your whole tomatoes." I tried to rebuttal say they would be great for her peaches, but she quickly ushered them into my stead and I was left humbled and grateful. I came home and told Stephen the story and he just beamed, so proud of his mom. It was a small act, but the selfless example made a large happy spot.

Then I found myself Wednesday afternoon with ripening peaches & a bushel left of tomatoes in my garage, 1 1/2 week old apples in my mud room, and 10 dozen ears of corn to take care of. I sat on my back porch with my sinus infection feeling sorry for myself – much like Mason must have felt sitting at the piano! The words I said to him rolled through my mind as I wondered how I would fare. Sniffing up my pride I became determined to practice what I preach. I ended up on the phone sorting through my plight with a cheerful friend when suddenly I heard her say, "I will be over in a minute." She came to my rescue, not only physically but emotionally. I knew if was a sacrifice and wanted to resist and then I looked down at my lame finger and surrendered. She came for an hour and Stephen popped out from his home office to show his support. I was officially up to my elbows in ears of corn, but my spirits were soaring at the heart.

This morning I set my alarm for 6:30 am so I could get an early start without interruption from my children. I took care of the peaches and apples! I wish I would have kept track of pits that were exiting my finger tips…it felt good, it smelled good, and it tasted good! I made an appeal to Stephen a couple of times for help and finally as he was walking out of the kitchen I declared, "I have decided that when the canning is happening, you have to be right next to me." He is efficient, quick, and really cute.

Even though the fruits of our labors are acts performed solely by ourselves the love & support from others become paramount in the quality and enjoyment with which we perform . I am grateful for the boost from friends and family and was able to accomplish more than I originally sought out to do a week ago. Waiting in my deep freeze and storage room shelves are:

57 bottles of tomato juice, 14 bottle of whole tomatoes, 25 quarts of freezer corn, 14 quarts of frozen peaches, 7 quarts of apple pie filling, 7 quarts of peach pie filling, strawberry, peach, and raspberry jam.

post edit: Sorry Stephen, I didn’t know you had already blogged about the tomatoes! oops ðŸ™‚