New Hymn for the Latter-Day Saint Woman

My mom emailed this to me today and I got a chuckle from it…maybe you will too?

"As Latter-day Saint women, we are practically obsessed with anxiously engaging ourselves in good causes. Maybe it’s subliminal.

Glancing through the hymnal last Sunday I noted that as sisters in Zion, we who are called to serve are all enlisted to go marching, marching forward because the world has need of willing men to all press on scattering sunshine. We wonder if we have done any good in the world today because we have been given much and want to do what is right, keep the commandments, press forward with the Saints, choose the right, and put our shoulders to the wheel going where He wants us to go. However, as the morning breaks high on the mountain top, truth reflects upon our senses, and while we still believe that sweet is the work, we also realize that we have work enough to do ere the sun goes down. And thus we ask Thee ere we part, where can we turn for peace?"

 

Welcome Autumn

Welcome to my most favorite season. In honor of this special first day of autumn we ate pumpkin chocolate chip cookies for an after school snack and toasted it in this morning with a cup of hot chocolate. Just puts a smile on your face doesn’t it? Here is the easy breezy recipe used for the cookies:

Easy Pumpkin Cookies From: Jana Brewer
1 box carrot cake or spice cake mix
1 16 oz. can pumpkin pie filling
1 Tbsp. oil
chocolate chips
 
Mix all ingredients together. bake at 350 for 10-12 min.

Notes: Very easy, but muy delicious!

 
Oven Temp: 350°   Cooking Time: 10 Min   Servings: 12

Comments:

Magan said…

My favorite cookie, I have a really good family recipe from my grandma I will have to share with you. This looks very easy though I will have to try it
Wednesday, September 23, 2009 5:25:38 PM

Megan said…

Yum! My kids will like it when I surprise them with this! Thanks.
Friday, September 25, 2009 11:40:04 PM

Quotes that make me go, Hmmm.

I came across some of the quotes I’ve randomly written down and decided to place them here so that I can toss the papers cluttering up my night stand:

CURRENT FAVORITE QUOTE: "Good decisions don’t make life easy, they make it easier." From the movie Forever Strong

This set of quotes come from the book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. As I re-read them I realized that I really need to apply the words to my life more.

  • "People justify & don’t take responsibility for criticism."
  • "Judge not that ye be not judged!" (isn’t that a scripture?)
  • "Change yourself (NOT OTHERS) – it is more profitable than trying to improve others & a lot less dangerous."
  • Benjamin Franklin said, "I will speak ill of no man, … and speak all the good I know of everybody."
  • "Father Forgets" by W. Linvingston Larned. "What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, or reprimanding – this was my reward for you being a boy…it was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years." (This story is touching and heartbreaking and stares us all in the face! Take a second to click on the link and read the whole thing)
  • UNDERSTAND don’t condemn
  • Charles Schwab said, "I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people, the greater asset I possess. And the way to develop the best that is in a person is by appreciation & encouragement."
  • Martin Luther King said, "I judge people by their own principles – not mine."
  • La Raochefoucauld "If you want enemies, excel your friends; but if you want friends, let your friends excel you."
  • Listen! Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
  • Have an increased tendency to think always in terms of the others person’s point of view…from that person’s angle.

Commercial Spot

Tonight Stephen and I attended a concert at BYU-I featuring the Nashville Tribute Band perfoming the albums, "Trek" and "Joseph" . These are 2 staple church CDs at our house and are beloved by each member of our family. If you haven’t heard the songs to these tributes please come and borrow ours or better for you in the long run, buy them! There was a lot to live up to tonight for us and we were not disappointed.

Getting to know the face behind the music was absolutely my favorite part…Jason Deere is the founder/writer and is seriously one neat dude. He has a soft heart and is a musical master. On the way home I kept wondering (even out loud) who he reminded me of…I finally came up with it – my little brother Scott. If you didn’t know it, I really like my brother – so that explains why I instantly liked Jason Deere. He is like a giant professional missionary. In fact, I was delighted to hear him say that he is making a new Nashville Tribute about missionaries! It will be out at the first of the year…you know I’ll be getting that.

Just to those of you who don’t know me well enough to remember that country music isn’t my first choice of music style, this stuff mixed with gospel content just hits the spot for me.

Also something to look for is the newly formed band,"Due West". They have a hit on the country charts, "I Get That All the Time." The band is produced by Jason Deere, and three members of the Nashville Tribute Band make it up. They formed this secular band because they wanted to have a band sing in Nashville with standards to look to (they won’t be singing about tears in their beers or cheatin’ hearts). They hope to someday draw a crowd that will be interested in hearing their testimonies through the Joseph and Trek music. I get it…wish I could explain it better.

Here are two of our favorite songs from these tributes for you to sample:

1. "How much can one heart take" – song about Emma Smith (I love Mindy Gledhill)

2."Crack of a whip" – My children’s personal favorite!

Things that make me happy today…


Doesn’t this make you happy too?


  1. Parting HUGS from my family as they left for work/school
  2. Morning STARS in the brisk cool September air
  3. Red POLKA DOT Pillows
  4. Rocking JT’s boy legs
  5. My Wall QUOTES
  6. Black Eyed Susans
  7. A good book to read
  8. Talking to Olivia
  9. The 26.2 sticker on the back of my friend’s van
  10. Bathroom Hair organizer

*HERE IS AN UPDATE ON the TRICK or TREAT campaign…*

Monday I found out that my nephew will be getting baptized at 9 am on Halloween morning – I would be sad to miss it!  So my possee and I will be postponing  our run until early afternoon – it will be warmer then too, right?!  It has been fun to hear from various people who are joining the campaign…we have some walkers, runners, daily exercisers, who have committed themselves to a trick and treat! I have been motivated because of you (from CA to AZ and right next door)- so fun! Now I just need to go pick me up some new running shoes…


One of my favorites

Thanks Jana for the great idea, what did we do before this?

only 1/4 into this one, but it is delightful

Ooooh, do they have to grow up?

Cheerful, no?

My Trick or Treat Campaign

I am so excited about my latest idea – I really hope it makes many people excited,  because wouldn’t that be just grand to have lots of people excited? Excited, eager, energetic, I wish I could think of another "e" word – that was fun.

Anyway, here is my great idea that is going to make you so excited (and me too remember?)

I am here to launch the first ever,

"Trick or Treat" Half Marathon.

O.k., did I loose you when I said half marathon? Keep reading because this is part of the trick.

DATE: Saturday, October 31st

TIME: 8 a.m.

LOCATION: To be determined

 Here’s my story: I have been feeling rather stagnant about my exercise regiment…meaning I am getting sloppy and basically want to be lazy. I decided I need something to shoot for – I need a goal. That is when I decided I should train for a 1/2 marathon. It isn’t too time consuming and it would keep me motivated without being overwhelmed. (To most non-runners this would seem overwhelming I realize. This is the beauty of my idea. You can pick your own goal, maybe you’re a biker, or swimmer, or walker, or even just getting started?) The main idea is to do something more than you are doing now and set a deadline to be better.

Anyway, when I thought about doing this I realized I didn’t want to pay for another registration and also incur travel expenses. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS REALLY FUN! I rationalized that rather than pay a registration fee and/or travel expenses – I’ll pay myself with a special prize. I don’t even know what it is yet, but i"ll let you know.  (I’m leaning toward a new pair of leather boots, a fabric jellyroll, or a zip-up hoodie) It becomes a win/win situation. I get in shape, feel good about myself, and also get a little something something! Maybe that should be called a win/win/win situation.

When I told Stephen about my idea he said we should make a shirt (the man will do anything for a shirt). He said we could get them for $5 each? So there might be a shirt in the deal for you too for a small price.

Notice the location is to be determined – I’m hoping that lots of you will be excited – people that don’t even live near me. So you will have to pick a place to accomplish your goal. If you want to come to my neck of the woods, I would love to lace up my running shoes next to you – I’ll keep you updated on the course selection.

I really want some friends/family to get tricked into treating themselves with me! Don’t delay. Leave a comment to commit yourself and add what your fitness goal will be. If you are like me, you need a friend so call one and let’s get moving.

The Fruits of our Labors – a weekly guide

I am sitting here plum tired! I started to wonder how I could be so tired and then I began to add up what we have accomplished in the past week.

Because it is "that time of year" again…(you know the part of the year where all of the sudden the fruit and veggies are ready to be packed up and preserved for their long winter’s nap?)I found myself being pulled against my will to prepare certain fruits – peaches, apples, and tomatoes to be exact – for the coming months ahead.

When I use the words "against my will" I am reminded of my Tuesday lecture prepared just for Mason after he said, "I don’t want to practice the piano. I just want to take piano lessons and know how to play." It became apparent  that I needed to remind him how it just doesn’t work that way. Every day progress is being made helping him become a better musician, the small things add up to something big! We all know that, right?!

Now back to my canning diary:

Monday Stephen had the family up at the crack of dawn ready to go pick tomatoes out in Salem.  We (along with our friends the Puzey’s who wanted to learn how to bottle tomato juice) went out and picked 5 bushel of tomatoes. We then came home and set up tomato juice production. We had quite the set up as  you can tell from the photos. We had a successful day ending up with 114 quarts. We did have 3 casualties which spooked us all and made us get jittery…kind of funny now that I think of it.

Tuesday I picked up my peaches from my mother-in-law Sharon. As we talked we both realized that we were out of canning jars. Just as I was about to pull out of the driveway Aunt Dot pulled in. Low and behold in the back of her trunk were boxes of quart jars. I offered to help carry some and as I was unpacking boxes, Sharon said, "you should take these wide mouth jars – they would be perfect for your whole tomatoes." I tried to rebuttal say they would be great for her peaches, but she quickly ushered them into my stead and I was left humbled and grateful. I came home and told Stephen the story and he just beamed, so proud of his mom. It was a small act, but the selfless example made a large happy spot.

Then I found myself Wednesday afternoon with ripening peaches & a bushel left of tomatoes in my garage, 1 1/2 week old apples in my mud room, and 10 dozen ears of corn to take care of. I sat on my back porch with my sinus infection feeling sorry for myself – much like Mason must have felt sitting at the piano! The words I said to him rolled through my mind as I wondered how I would fare. Sniffing up my pride I became determined to practice what I preach. I ended up on the phone sorting through my plight with a cheerful friend when suddenly I heard her say, "I will be over in a minute." She came to my rescue, not only physically but emotionally. I knew if was a sacrifice and wanted to resist and then I looked down at my lame finger and surrendered. She came for an hour and Stephen popped out from his home office to show his support. I was officially up to my elbows in ears of corn, but my spirits were soaring at the heart.

This morning I set my alarm for 6:30 am so I could get an early start without interruption from my children. I took care of the peaches and apples! I wish I would have kept track of pits that were exiting my finger tips…it felt good, it smelled good, and it tasted good! I made an appeal to Stephen a couple of times for help and finally as he was walking out of the kitchen I declared, "I have decided that when the canning is happening, you have to be right next to me." He is efficient, quick, and really cute.

Even though the fruits of our labors are acts performed solely by ourselves the love & support from others become paramount in the quality and enjoyment with which we perform . I am grateful for the boost from friends and family and was able to accomplish more than I originally sought out to do a week ago. Waiting in my deep freeze and storage room shelves are:

57 bottles of tomato juice, 14 bottle of whole tomatoes, 25 quarts of freezer corn, 14 quarts of frozen peaches, 7 quarts of apple pie filling, 7 quarts of peach pie filling, strawberry, peach, and raspberry jam.

post edit: Sorry Stephen, I didn’t know you had already blogged about the tomatoes! oops ðŸ™‚

my strike comes to a halt (I guess)

This morning I walked through my kitchen and shuddered a little. I noticed caked food on the floor, hand prints all over the windows and appliances, smears all over the bar stools, incessant crumbs crunching under my feet and lightbulbs that are burned out. Not to forget the slime covering certain cupboard knobs, baseboards that need to be painted, and the plants on top of my cupboards that haven’t been dusted for eons.

And that is just the kitchen! I could elaborate describing the rest of the house but it would bore the reader and zap my energy supplies.

Apparently I went on strike…crept in this summer with my eyes wide open as child after child shattered my dream world of an ideal CLEAN living space.

In early June it hadn’t happened yet as I followed them around pointing out the troubles I saw as they gradually took over. I tried to remain calm and hopeful, even tried to work out compromises in my mind, but by the end of the month I got overtaken and pulled out the white flag. There is 1 of me and five of them and I had to surrender. I decided it is better to keep the peace and lower my standards, not to say that inside I still didn’t have an internal struggle.

I went on strike to make a point – "I can’t clean and then sit back and watch my precious efforts come unraveled anymore." And I didn’t want to freak out about it any longer sparking resentment issues in the years to come with a few certain children. It seemed to only be important to me and finally I decided that it just wasn’t worth the effort to get to enjoy it for 5 minutes!

Now that school has started the war is over and I am left here to pay penance for my silly immaturity! It might take me a full school year to reclaim what has happened around here…wish me luck!

Comments:

Magan said…

I hope you can still over look things at my house because I apparently I have surrendered too!
Wednesday, September 02, 2009 5:11:01 PM

Bruce said…

You got to be comfortable in your own house, so being Mom, you get to make the rules and teach everybody to keep things like you like them. When it comes to your personal standards of cleanliness, patience sometimes is not a virtue. Stick with your guns and slowly they will learn. Sharon taught me to be more neat and clean.
Thursday, September 03, 2009 7:00:48 PM

michelle said…

Wow-sounds familiar! If it helps, I think your home is beautiful. I keep telling myself that someday I am really going to miss all those hand prints and crumbs and sticky spots. At least it helps to think so.
Thursday, September 03, 2009 9:46:40 PM

I wonder?

A few weeks ago my mother-in-law gave me a start to "Amish friendship bread".  As she handed it to me Bruce said he wasn’t sure if it is such a friendly thing to give this start away – it is more like a burden (or something to that effect).  I knew what he meant because my mom used to make this and I remember her feeling bittersweet about it all. Now I had the opportunity to experience it first hand.

I took it knowing what it entailed, but willing because I thought my children would enjoy it. It was kind of fun mashing the bag and trying to figure out if I was on the right day…you see it takes 10 days of babysitting on your kitchen counter until the day finally arrives to bake. Well, I made it and it was a hit with my kids and tasted just like I remember my mom’s tasting like from when I was a kid. Stephen was more skeptical and passed it by claiming he "didn’t know how many hands have touched that."

I made the bread the night before I went visiting teaching. I was excited about the timing thinking I would have someone to share the 4 new starts with and pass on the responsibility. One friend was a taker (bless her heart), but the other two refused and gave me a lengthy explanation as to why they weren’t willing to commit. I readily understood and didn’t blame them, however I still had 3 homes to find.

Life got busy and a few days passed when my mom came to town. I thought, "now I can give one to her and have her take 2 home to my sisters in Utah!" Good plan? NO – she and I forgot about it on the day she left. Great – now I have 3 starts of friendship bread to babysit. I tended to them and this past Saturday was day 10 for the second time and to the third degree. It was a busy day and inconvenient to try and make 3 batches of bread and bake them for an hour each and also distribute and get the other 12 bags filled. I feel embarrassed to admit this but I  will rid myself of the guilt now – I ended up throwing one start away. Even doing that I ended up with 8 new starter bags that needed a home/friend. Imagine if I would have had 12! Talk about out of control…BTW – does anyone have a recipe to make pancakes or any other recipes that you can use that start for? I thought the bread was fun, but it would be nice to have other options too. (when I decide to do it again in like 5 years when my mind has forgotten about this)

I made my distribution hit list yesterday after church. I packaged up a jumbo muffin from yesterday’s batch as a sample and figured these people couldn’t resist if I gave them a sample too. Here is a little secret… I decided it is better to give them away to people who you know a little but not too well – this way they don’t have the heart to tell you no.

As I passed these starts to their new friend I wonder if I just strengthened my friendship or not? Hopefully they have the mindset that "it’s the thought that counts". Either way I have now passed my responsibilities and have felt the "burden" lifted.

Comments:

Scott said…

It’s okay to say anything you want about anyone, as long as you follow it with “bless her heart.”
Monday, August 31, 2009 7:46:54 PM

Sharon said…

Thanks, you expressed my feelings also. But it was fun for a while. I just need to rid myself of the burden now.
Monday, August 31, 2009 10:09:27 PM

These is my Words

Just finished a book with this title written by Nancy E. Turner. I am a fan of historical fiction and this is a highly recommended read!  ( I have been on hiatus with my computer time because of it) I knew it was one I wanted to read when my sister-in-law Magan told me about it. It did not disappoint and was very emotionally compelling.

(Off of Nancy E. Turner’s Website) "These Is My Words uses the love of learning as a major plot element in a story inspired by her great-grandmother, Sarah Prine. It is set during a time in Territorial Arizona when life was hard and tenuous. The story is a portrait of the courage and perseverance of one woman, and a love affair that will never be forgotten."

FYI, apparently there are 2 more books after this. Anyone ventured to read them?

I seemed to be able to see myself in the main character in the fact that she is completely contradictory at times with her feelings – especially toward her husband, but DID NOT relate when it comes to her fearlessness in combating Indians, snakes/animals, death, and heartache.

I dogeared a few pages to write down a some favorite quotes.  They might not mean much to most, but will to me:

"Children are  a heavy burden to a mother, but not the way a heavy box is to a mule. Our children weigh hard on my heart, and thinking of them growing up honest and healthy, or just living to grow up at all, makes a load in my chest that is bigger than the safe at a bank, and more valuable to me than all the gold inside it." You really have to read the book to realize the helplessness she must have felt in just trying to keep them all alive.  Also felt I could mirror those words to my life in 2009 in a small feeble way – a mother will always worry about her children!

Talking about her husband she said, "In so many things he is rough and ornery but in ways of our family, he is always so gentle it is like I am married to two different men. I love them both and need them equally." Just think it is sweet and my idea of a good romance. He really wasn’t ornery as much as always leaving her to go battle Indians with the military, but he needed her with much urgency. He loved a thrill but he couldn’t live without her.

"My life feels like a book left out on a porch, and the wind blows the pages faster and faster, turning always toward a new chapter faster than I can stop to read it." Great description of how time can seem to slip through our fingers! Very interestingly noted that she adored books and learning – I like how she compared her life to something she loved and could personally relate with.

Get your libarary card out and go get yourself a copy soon!

Comments:

Mom and dad Parker said…

We loved the quotes and the blog. We feel that they were very descriptive of life.
Monday, August 31, 2009 10:02:01 PM

Magan said…

glad you liked it too! I have a another really great read when you are ready well in fact three really great reads in mind.
Tuesday, September 01, 2009 4:30:22 PM